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Old 09-08-2007   #1 (permalink)
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What if you fell inlove with your best friend..
What would you choose the friendship or sacrifice it and take the risk of telling your bestfriend about your feelings..
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..aah, tough call. In my mind there isn't a real sacrifice if it is a truly close friendship. If that's the case, you and the other can talk about it, the other one will and should understand your feelings, whatever they are.. That's the best scenario though. It's even more tough when yourself and the other ain't that close friends, and it gets kinda awkward and such.. Personally I would probably let the girl know about my feelings, if.. we were close friends. Cos then the friendship wouldn't break apart if she didn't have mutual feelings of me.. On the other hand you would probably not 'lose' that much, if the other part ain't that close of a friend.. Uhm, just a thought, and my opinion.. Well, uhm, guess that's that..

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I agree with Volcom
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True love is tough to find but if you think you have it......go for it. Why not have the best of both worlds.
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I have to agree with Volcom.
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Hard question but if I were on that situation I will tell him
if I have a deep feelings for my best friend. Though it was
really hard on my part to say it because I might lose our
friendship. If the feeling is mutual the better. If he doesn't
feel the same way I feel. That would be a big problem, but
I think he will still understand and the friendship might be save.

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I'd rather choose friendship over it, at least I will be in a "win-lose" situation. (:
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The real question is how does this said friend feel about you?

Any feelings at all? How long have you been friends?

More information is needed...
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What if you fell inlove with your best friend..
What would you choose the friendship or sacrifice it and take the risk of telling your bestfriend about your feelings..
really tough, but for me, ill be honest not only to him but also to my self,, ill tell him. but i keep the friendship if he doesnt feel the same way as i feel for him..
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really tough, but for me, ill be honest not only to him but also to my self,, ill tell him. but i keep the friendship if he doesnt feel the same way as i feel for him..
You with yourself can maintain the friendship but your not sure if he/she still accept you as a his/her friend after the revelation. No one knows what the result would be.
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